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为什么我们难以发挥出最大的潜能?

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发布时间:2019年07月30日 15:36:02

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讽刺的是,正是勤奋工作使我们远离了也许是我们职业生涯中重要的那部分:开发你的最大潜能并和世界分享你的天赋和才能。

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一件个人经历,显示策略是如何对你有害的


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六条使你无法发挥最大潜能的策略


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害怕不够好,故而追求完美。

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害怕出众,故而让自己看上去渺小,不重要,无意义。

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相信别人的感受和看法比你自己更重要(或更脆弱),故而屈从于他人的意见。

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害怕受到伤害或者担心自己很脆弱(或两者兼备)而在四周筑起高墙来保护自己。

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相信倾听自己的直觉是莫名其妙没有意义的,故而依赖于外界资源,花费大量时间收集信息并仔仔细细,小心谨慎地考虑事情。

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相信自己应该不断努力争取更多,故而在结束一个挑战前先接下下一个。

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我每天是如何与这些策略共事的


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我确信个人发展是创造你喜欢的生活和从事改变世界的工作的关键,同时,也能让你发挥出自己最大的潜能。